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Friday, January 12, 2007
I recently discovered a great new program called "Insider Internet Dating" by Dave M. In my opinion, it's the best program out there for guys who want to become more successful meeting women online and dating.
I'm really excited about it, because with all the crap dating products out there, it's difficult for guys to find advice that works.
What makes this program different than anything else out there?
Mostly Dave M. himself.
See Dave is a smart, cool, normal guy who for years struggled and was clueless about dating. Like most other guys he had no clue why he wasn't able to get the results and the dates he wanted.
One day, completely frustrated from another bad date the night before he decided to do something about it.
Several years ago, he purchased an ebook on dating that completely changed his life. From that point on it was like the floodgates opened up.
Dave's success started to increase, but something was missing.
And since Dave worked online and hated approaching women in public, he decided to try these new skills with online personals dating sites.
Dave tried just about everything, but quickly found out that meeting women online was very different than meeting women in real life.
So he had to learn this skill as well.
Dave decided to take a scientific approach to meeting women online and started putting up profiles all over the U.S. in every major city. By doing this he was able to test what worked and what didn't work online very quickly.
Soon after, he was sending out close to 5,000 emails a month, spread out over 46 different profiles!
Dave tested everything. From subject lines, days of the week to email, time of day, what to put in the email, types of photos that got the best response. You name it, he tested it.
He even has a phone script for what to talk about when you call a woman!
It took some time, about 3 years of constantly testing and fine-tuning his results. During that time he dated over 360 women, collected over 2,800 phone numbers and gotten over 5,000 email responses. He needed to see if his results could work on others, so he tried it on some friends of his, and their results skyrocketed as well!
He knew he was on to something big.
After his interview with David DeAngelo, Dave was bombarded with friends practically begging him to release his program. So finally he decided to reveal his secrets. That's how "Insider Internet Dating" came to be.
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These are simple strategies you can do to separate yourself from 99.9% of the guys on all the dating sites, Dave lays it out for you in an easy to follow format, in audio and video.
The strategies and techniques in the program are simple and practical, they don't take much time and they work like clockwork on any dating site.
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Friday, January 05, 2007
What do you say when you don’t say anything?
We dance around this topic all the time, but it’s ready for the spotlight: body language. This is the most important thing not just when dealing with women, but with communication period.
Nothing else even comes close.
Wonder why that thick-as-a-post jock got all the women when charming funny nervous sitcom-character-in-waiting guy got nothing in high school?
Why James Bond got his pick of the litter and the brilliant Q got more quality time with gadgets?
Why that homely busboy at the corner Italian restaurant takes home all the gorgeous patrons and the handsome maitre-de takes home doggy bags?
Garlic. The busboy stank of it and THAT is a huge turn-on.
Just seeing if you were paying attention.
All those other things you THOUGHT did the trick were just extra fuel for the fodder. Body language is the key to EVERYTHING.
Why? Because it is the symptom that tells you everything you need to know about the INSIDE of a person.
It clues you in to the person’s confidence, their openness, even their sexual skills. And if you send out the wrong signals – which most people do – then you’ve given yourself a SERIOUS hole to dig out from.
Conversely, if your movements say the right things you are on top of a BIG mountain that you’d have to work to screw up.
The unfortunate thing is you have a CHOICE about what you say, and most don’t realize it. Or they choose to ignore it and remain “themselves,” as if we are static representations of an image that never changes.
WRONG. WRONG WRONG WRONG! If there was a hand near me, I’d slap it. Good thing I type with my feet.
People are dynamic, and ever-changing. In fact, we are NEVER the same as we were in the past. Those changes show up in our body language, but that doesn’t mean we should abandon control.
If so, we wouldn’t bother with school, riding a bike, and everyone would still be a virgin. After all, we were all virgins once, weren’t we?
Look, there’s a difference between being UNAWARE of something, and being INDIFFERENT. Unaware just means we don’t know what we’re doing with ourselves. Ignorance may be bliss, but it’s not helpful.
Indifference is when you know what’s going on, but you choose to ignore it. WRONG! Where’s that hand!
You can’t be passive all your life and expect things to come to you. The world doesn’t work that way (my apologies to all silver-spooners I’ve offended with this blanket statement that merely applies to 100% of all living things, rounded to the closest .00000001).
You need to be ACTIVE. You need to TAKE CHARGE of your life, and that means taking an ACTIVE role in the changes that happen to you.
They’re coming either way. Personally, I’d rather have a vote.
So no whining about the walk you’ve developed and how that represents YOU as you are now. If that walk doesn’t work, kill it. Time to get a new one.
And there’s a bonus beyond the initial differences that changing your body language communicates to the outside world.
It also can change your inner one.
Seriously, this works. The Japanese have long held the belief that a cluttered home leads to a cluttered mind, and a clean one, a clear one. The outer world touches our inner one, and when you change the way you move, you also change the way you think.
Don’t believe me? Try it. Pick a wall and stand up straight against it. Your feet, butt, shoulders, and head should all touch the wall, exerting about the same amount of pressure (no smooshing). Now walk away from the wall, but hold the pose for 5 minutes.
How do you feel? Right, like someone stuck a pole up your ass. Just what we were going for.
It’s going to feel weird for awhile, because it’s different and new. Keep going, though, and eventually it won’t feel weird. In fact, it’ll start to feel GOOD. You’ll find yourself with this new CONFIDENCE that wasn’t there before and doesn’t seem to have much of an explanation.
Except that you are standing like you are confident. Cause and affect get blurred, and you wind up FEELING a certain way just because you are ACTING that way.
Either way, you look better standing straight, and you project confidence to all comers. Women find you more attractive, even if they aren’t self-aware enough to know why. Co-workers and those around you often might comment that you seem… DIFFERENT.
Congratulations young Jedi, you’re on your way.
Standing up straight is about as basic as it comes, but non-verbal communication goes much deeper.
When you walk and lead with your head, not only are you hunching and sending out uncomfortable self-conscious shrinking vibes, but you’re also telling people that you tend to THINK a lot. Maybe more than you should.
Lead with your stomach, it speaks to your appetites and emotions.
Lead with your pelvis, and it says you are sexually experienced and confident.
This might sound like a lot of new-agey crap, but try it. Walk around for awhile leading with different parts of your body, and notice the changes that happen in your head. It’s real, VERY real. And there’s no reason bad chairs in abandoned classrooms should have more of a say about how you feel than you do.
Those nervous tics, those fidgety hands? Lose ‘em. Every button you finger while talking to someone – especially an attractive woman who’s trying to make a snap judgment about you – is a negative. Every fast jerky motion says you have low self-esteem – it’s like you have to get it done before some stronger guy comes along to stop you.
It’s like the beta wolves trying to feed before the alpha wakes up and wants more – complete with herky-jerky looks to check for his approach. This shit runs deep.
When you make eye-contact and drop it first. Oh god no. In our part of the animal kingdom, this is strong supplicating behavior. There are monkeys which tear the arms off other animals – including humans – if they don’t drop gaze first.
So if you are looking at a woman and look away before she does? You’ve just said she’s in control, and her chances of becoming attracted to you pretty much disappear.
That’s not to say you stare from a far distance. That’s stalker behavior – when far enough away betas get bolder – and she’ll think you a freak. This is about close quarters, the moment before a conversation starts.
Crossing your arms? Stop that. You’re telling everyone to stay away, so don’t be surprised when they do.
Leaning in to your target? Why not just say “I want to have sex with you.” That’s exactly what you’re doing, and most guys do it so early that it’s a major turn-off (unlike once she’s primed, in which case it can start speeding things up).
Standing in her personal space (which for most people is about 18 inches to 3 feet away)? You’re triggering her to run away, which is NOT a feeling you want linked with you. Standing right on the border of her personal space? This can be golden if you do it right, creating a certain tension in her mind although she probably won’t know what from. Much like really needing to piss can lead to a boner, this tension can become sexual.
Standing well outside her personal space and not directing your body at her, remaining somewhat detached? Now that’s good – she’s gonna want to know why she doesn’t have your attention, and might start working to get YOUR approval. Don’tcha love that?
There are thousands of little cues we give off to each other, and the BEST way to learn them is to see them in action. Go out and find some guys doing well with the ladies. Watch them, see what they’re doing with their bodies, and what responses they are getting. If you think you’ve identified a non-verbal communication that signals confidence or sexual prowess or just general alpha-ness, go practice it. Try it out. Odds are you won’t get it the first time, but don’t let that discourage you. There is no better way.
The second-best way, though, is experience the subject using the material in my course Seduction Science, now available in audio CD. Everything contained in this newsletter is covered in much greater detail, as well as hundreds of other helpful hints and techniques that will correctly adjust and fine tune the nuances your body language.
Until next time.
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Saturday, December 16, 2006
by Michael Webb
The Romantic's Guide: Hundreds of Creative Tips for a Lifetime of Love
With all the hustle and bustle of the holidays the children, friends and relatives often get all the attention and the spouses are leftout in the cold. Celebrate this Christmas with 12 days of romance.
On the first day of Christmas... Buy your mate one box of their favorite cereal and lace it with lots of "prizes." Throw in some golf tees, Hershey kisses, toy cars or whatever would bring out the child in them.
On the second day of Christmas... Take out your two engraved toasting glasses from the china cabinet and use them. Reminisce the day you first sipped from them. If you never had any engrave your own by buying some stencils and etching paste at a craft store.
On the third day of Christmas... Have three meals together. You could go all out with breakfast in bed, a picnic lunch and a candle lit dinner. Better yet, spend less time preparing the mealand more time sharing it together.
On the fourth day of Christmas... Put the pedal to the metal andfour on the floor. Take a peaceful drive for the day. Go to country, sight see in the city or cruise around looking at Christmas lights.
On the fifth day of Christmas... Fax or deliver a photocopy of yourfive fingers (plus the rest of your hand) to your love at work.Tell them you can't wait to be together to hold the real thing.
On the six day of Christmas... Give him or her a half dozen of herfavorite flower, one at a time. Leave one on the pillow, one on thecar seat, one at the office, etc.
On the seventh day of Christmas... Count your lucky stars by gazing into the 7th heaven. If the night is overcast, arrange glow-in-the-dark ones on the bedroom ceiling.
On the eighth day of Christmas... Buy an 8 pack of crayons andtogether design and color a personalized coloring book of happy memories you have shared.
On the ninth day of Christmas... Dress to the nines and go out to the swankiest place around and if you can't afford the full meal just order drinks or dessert.
On the tenth day of Christmas... Massage your sweetheart's achingshoulders for ten minutes. Throw in a back scratch, a foot massageand a hair brushing if you are feeling extra generous.
On the eleventh day of Christmas... Bake eleven of his or herfavorite cookies (since most recipes make one dozen, these will be bigger than usual, he won't complain). Stick a wooden skewer through the side of each cookie and then wrap the cookie in a colored plastic wrap. Place them in a box or vase as you would a dozen roses.
On the twelfth day of Christmas... Present your sweetheart with a custom made twelve month calendar for the new year. Use personal photographs or your own drawings to make it unique. Highlight special days for the new year.
Submitted by: Sunny
I have a small artificial Christmas tree that fits perfectly on the nightstand in my bedroom. I decorate it with tiny white lights (great mood lighting at night!) and hang 12 small pieces of paper that are rolled up and tied with a piece of gold ribbon. On each piece of paper I write a special message such as "one back rub" or "one long kiss" (you get the idea!).
My husband gets to take one message off the tree each night for the 12 nights before Christmas. I find that this is a great way to stay connected during the rush and stress of the season and reminds us to take a few moments to enjoy each other. You can get REAL creative with the messages and have a lot of fun redeeming them!!
This year I've included a couple small wrapped items for under the tree...a small bottle of oil and a scented candle are a couple of the things I've tucked under there. When my husband takes a message off the tree that says "pick a gift" he will have several to choose from.
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Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Your Cheating Christmas Spouse
For many, the Christmas season is one of excess. Lots of good food, lots of good wine, egg-nog, and other beverages, and peace and goodwill to all mankind. But is it the season of goodwill as we are led to believe, or is it something different altogether?
The Christmas season brings it's fair share of stress to relationships, and for many couples the stresses of the season manifest themselves through over-eating, drinking too much, and for some, looking for love or fulfillment outside of the relationship. It sounds like a cliche, but the demands on time and money, credit card debts, family politics and office parties can all lead an otherwise solid couple to stray.
The sharing of love among family and loved ones is one of the characteristics of Christmas, and combined with the financial pressures as well as pre-Christmas deadlines, the gifting or sharing of love is taken a step too far by many and leads to much more than a peck under the mistletoe or a hug at the office party.
I hear from a number of couples that experienced marital problems and infidelity issues during the Christmas period, and it seemed hard to explain or fathom a reason that it happens more around Christmas than it does at other times of the year. I wonder if we are led to believe that Christmas time should be a time of happiness, solidarity, and new hope, and this leads people to re-evaluate their lives at the end of another year and wonder if they are any closer to realizing their dreams. The irony of Christmas for many is that the weeks and days leading up to it are a frenzy of preparation, last-minute shopping, Christmas parties, and credit card overspending. And all of this is so we can have a couple of days relaxing!
The weeks and days leading up to Christmas can be one of the most telling times in a relationship, as the added pressures of christmas on an already stressed relationship can lead partners to lose the strong connection that binds them together. In focusing on creating the perfect Christmas, people often lose sight of the fact that they are compromising their relationships in the process.
Having an affair doesn't always have to be a conscious decision. We are never taught how to effectively deal with relationships, so when we drift apart slightly during the Christmas rush, we don't know what to do about it. Cheaters may miss the connection they have with their partner. They may believe they have fallen out of love. They may be tempted by the attention of a neighbor, friend, or coworker. They may even feel it is not technically cheating if it only happens once. Suddenly the possibility of a kiss with someone they are attracted to suddenly becomes something more. Mistletoe suddenly has a new meaning.
If your partner is having an affair, what should you be watching out for over this Christmas season?
If your partner does have a lover, it is quite likely that they will need to purchase them a gift. It may be something personal. It may be something sexy. It may be something expensive. A good way to monitor Christmas spending is to watch your credit card statements. Read your bank statements. Keep an eye out for receipts. Are there any sudden withdrawals or transactions that show up that you can't identify?
It takes money and time to maintain an affair, however it is easy to overlook brief snatches of time or money in the rush leading up to Christmas. The key to keeping on top of things is to notice the details. What time is your partner coming home at night? If they are late, what is their explanation? Have you checked to see if their explanation checks out?
Have you checked their cell phone to see who they have been sending Christmas wishes to?
If you are looking for further evidence, it may be useful to check the common hiding places for Christmas gifts and trinkets:
-backs of drawers
-inside old suitcases
-backs of unused cupboards or shelves
-in their car, including under seats, inside spare tire well, inside the glove compartment
-in their briefcase, purse, or work bag
-in the back of the closet
-in the garage
-in the attic or roof space
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Wednesday, November 29, 2006
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Monday, November 06, 2006
Ten Great Holiday Dates For Singles
By Toni Coleman
Dating during the holiday season can be a special
treat. Of course, in order to fully experience this
you may need to re-order some priorities and make time
for yourself and your own personal needs. Don’t give
into the temptation to put your social life on hold
until after the New Year. Manage those work projects
and family demands in a way that leaves you open to
try some of the romantic and fun-filled activities
that are available at this time of year.
The following 10 date ideas should help put you in
the mood and may even inspire you to come up with a
few on your own.
1.Have a “progressive” dinner together. Go to one
place for your appetizer, another (romantic and
intimate) place for your dinner; and then have dessert
and coffee (nightcap), in a quiet spot with a
beautiful view of holiday lights or other holiday
views. Even better, go by limo, so you have all your
time to focus on each other and don’t have to worry
about all the driving.
2. Take a holiday tour of historic homes in your
area. Many areas of the country have these. Often they
are done in the evening by candlelight. Afterwards,
you can go for a walk and view the surrounding
neighborhood lights and decorations. Finish with
coffee in a quiet bistro.
3. Get dressed up and attend a holiday concert or play.
You can spend a lot or very little on this kindof date, depending where you
go for the entertainment.A nice little before or after meal fills out the evening.
4. Go and get hot chocolate with your date; then go
look at Christmas lights or displays available in your
area. Many places have dazzling displays that light up
5. Go ice skating together. Find a nice place, not
too crowded. This brings out the playful side and
encourages a lot of interaction with each other. Hold
hands, show off, race- be kids again!
6. Attend a religious service together. This could
be accomplished by going to a place of worship that
one (or both) of you belong to; or you could go to a
non-denominational service. An evening service,
followed by a supper in an intimate restaurant could
fill you with a sense of well-being and
7. Throw a small holiday get-together with a few
other couples (or friends). Plan an activity such as
trimming the tree or lighting the menorah. Be sure to
serve festive food and drink. A bonus would be to have
a secret Santa gift exchange. This would be where each
person brings a gift ($10.00 or less). Everyone picks
a number. Person with number one begins with first
selection. Go through all the numbers and open each
gift in front of the group. Exchanging is fine and
provides some extra fun. Lots of laughs and very
8. Choose your or his/her place, stay home, rent
old holiday classics, light the fire and cook a simple
but festive meal together. Play holiday music while
you cook. Then watch (a few if you like) holiday
favorites together. Or, you can bake Christmas cookies
or other holiday treats together while listening to
music and enjoying the fire.
9. Work at a soup kitchen one day (meal) together.
Sharing the experience of giving is a wonderful way to
get to know someone and deepen a relationship. It is
also a great way to get into the true holiday spirit.
After the clean up, go for a walk followed by coffee
or a nightcap.
10. Go to a planetarium (if one is nearby). Enjoy
the spectacular winter sky together. There is usually
a guided “show” that you can experience as you sit
closely, (perhaps hand in hand?). Try to pick out
constellations together as you walk back to your car.
It is always nice to have an intimate meal
See if you can add some ideas of your own to this
list. Then put aside several evenings over the next
few weeks and awaken those feelings of peace, joy and
goodwill for others.
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Tuesday, October 31, 2006
It's Friday, Do You Know Where Your Women Are?
To quote the actor Chris Tucker - "It's Friday, you
ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do!"
Well, maybe you do have a job and things to do, but
are you doing the things you WANT to do?
Namely: Are you going out tonight to meet some
Friday night is probably the BEST night of the
week to meet women.
Think about it:
It's been a long, hard week. People are getting off
work. They don't have anything to do the next day.
They can sleep in as late as they want. They're
looking to unwind and release some stress. In other
They're out looking to have fun!
And what does having fun entail? Well, for most
women, having fun on a Friday night means -
MEETING A MAN!
That's right. We go out to meet women. They go
out to meet us!
But the question you gotta ask yourself is: Are they
gonna meet YOU?
This is important. This can mean the difference
between getting laid and quietly sobbing in the shower.
So how are these women going to meet you?
Well, that's entirely up to you. I can give you some
suggestions that will help you out, but honestly, it's
up to you to act and make it happen.
The first thing you need to do to make sure women
are going to meet you tonight is...
Are you ready?
GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!
That's step number one. You GOTTA get out and
go to where the women are. This means going out
with friends, or, if they're not around to hang out,
go out by yourself!
Regardless of how you do it, if you DON'T go out,
you have 0% chance of meeting women. (I'm
talking real women who could go home with you
TONIGHT! Not internet women).
The second step is **Go to Where the Women Are!**
This is important. Bars and clubs are always a good
bet to find women. But if that's not your scene, you
have other options available to you.
1. Happy hour.
--Yes, I know, this is a bar thing. But, happy hour
usually occurs BEFORE things get too hectic, so if
you're older, this may be a good alternative to
fighting off all those youngsters out there. Most
women go to happy hour after work, and then go
home and change for a night out on the town. This
is a GREAT opportunity for you to set up a date for
LATER THAT NIGHT.
2. Bookstores & Coffee Shops
--If you have a little bit more of a laid back lifestyle,
bookstores and coffee shops are a good place to
check out on a Friday night. If you can find a
coffee shop that's open late, all the better!
Typically, the women here are quieter, book-
worm wallflower types. So it may be harder to
initially engage them, but it'll be easier to wrangle
them into a conversation.
3. Hotel Lobbies & Bars
--No, I'm not talking about the lobby of your local
"Day's Inn." I'm talking about the NICE hotels in
your area. You know, the 4 & 5 star kind with valet
parking and an extremely nice bar area. These can
be great places to meet women, especially
considering a lot of "hotel hotties" are from out of
town and looking for some adventure. This scene is
also more laid back and less intense than your
typical bar and club.
Okay, so now that we've covered step 1 & 2, it's
time to go to the final step:
Let's face it, even though women's lib is going
strong, women STILL don't typically approach
guys. They wait for YOU to approach THEM.
So that begs the question: How do you approach them?
In my book, "The Art of Approaching," I go into
this subject in detail. Inside my book, you'll find:
--Specific stories guaranteed to start a conversation
with any woman you meet.
--Funny one-liners to get her laugh right away!
--Tactics to easily get 10-12 numbers a night.
--A step-by-step guide that teaches you how to
overcome any fear or nervousness you may have
when it comes to meeting women!
--Much, much more...
At the very least, walk up to these women and say
to them "Hi." But if you really want to SUPERCHARGE
your ability to meet the kind of beautiful,
interesting women you've always wanted, be sure
to check out my book.
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Friday, October 27, 2006
Thursday, October 19, 2006
By Lisa Daily
We've got the secret for more fun online dates, with less lying and better safety. Is it Red Bull spiked with truth serum? No, it's team dating, the latest and greatest in online dating.
Instead of the usual online hookup for two, team daters date in teams. Two or three of my closest pals set up a group date with two or three of yours. Here's why we think team dating is a fabulous idea:
Safety in Numbers
Instead of meeting a complete stranger for drink all alone, you'll meet a throng of complete strangers, accompanied by your closest friends. Plus, there are no worries about driving home alone -- you know your pals will make certain you get home safely.
No Faux-tos (a.k.a Fake Photos)
Your date's friends will keep him honest. He's far less likely to post a photo of himself when he was 20 pounds lighter with significantly more hair and fewer wrinkles if he knows that his friends (and yours!) will call him on it at the moment of truth, when you all meet up for the first time. The threat of public humiliation is a fine tool to keep us all walking the straight line.
To Tell the Truth
In the same vein, the great thing about dating someone in front of their friends is that it keeps them honest. No remaking his two-year stint as a ball boy in the seventh grade for the Hickory Crawdads into a near-miss career as a major league pitcher. No glossing over that seven-year employment gap as a period of reflection to write a novel/live with Buddhist monks/join the Peace Corps if it was really just chronic laziness in the form of one bad pizza-flipping gig after another.
"Team dating takes the anxiety out of dating. If you're a listener rather than a talker, it's really helpful to have other people there," explains Elizabeth, a team dating practitioner and fan.
"It takes a lot of the pressure off a regular dating situation. There's never a lull in conversation, because you have five other people there to pick up the slack. Plus you won't get stuck with a guy who might be a psycho. On the downside," she laughs, "you might end up with three."
Why Is This Catching On So Quickly?
Frankly, its way more fun than regular online dating. If your date turns out to be a dud, you can still have a fabulous time hanging out with your friends. Plus, you won't have to worry about dishing the details of your date-gone-wrong the next day over margaritas; your closest pals will be there to witness the crash-and-burn firsthand. Plus, team dating eliminates most of the concerns that crop up in regular online dating: safety and honesty.
While some sites are suggesting daters register as teams, I think this is where the concept falls apart. Say you pick out a cutie online, then, you have to talk your team into dating the rest of his or her team. The chances of six or eight of you matching up like sweater sets from Talbots is pretty damned slim.
So how do you partake in team dating without forcing your dearest friends into a triple-wingman formation? You and three of your buddies pick out your own dates online, and meet up at a single location, say the bowling alley or a local watering hole for your date for eight.
At worst, your date will be a social experiment gone wrong. At best, you and your teammates may find you've all hit a home run.
Now, that's major league dating.
Armed with these tips from the pros, your dating game just got a whole lot smoother, sleeker and sexier. Game on.
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