Your Cheating Christmas Spouse

Your Cheating Christmas Spouse

For many, the Christmas season is one of excess. Lots of good food, lots of good wine, egg-nog, and other beverages, and peace and goodwill to all mankind. But is it the season of goodwill as we are led to believe, or is it something different altogether?

The Christmas season brings it's fair share of stress to relationships, and for many couples the stresses of the season manifest themselves through over-eating, drinking too much, and for some, looking for love or fulfillment outside of the relationship. It sounds like a cliche, but the demands on time and money, credit card debts, family politics and office parties can all lead an otherwise solid couple to stray.

The sharing of love among family and loved ones is one of the characteristics of Christmas, and combined with the financial pressures as well as pre-Christmas deadlines, the gifting or sharing of love is taken a step too far by many and leads to much more than a peck under the mistletoe or a hug at the office party.

I hear from a number of couples that experienced marital problems and infidelity issues during the Christmas period, and it seemed hard to explain or fathom a reason that it happens more around Christmas than it does at other times of the year. I wonder if we are led to believe that Christmas time should be a time of happiness, solidarity, and new hope, and this leads people to re-evaluate their lives at the end of another year and wonder if they are any closer to realizing their dreams. The irony of Christmas for many is that the weeks and days leading up to it are a frenzy of preparation, last-minute shopping, Christmas parties, and credit card overspending. And all of this is so we can have a couple of days relaxing!

The weeks and days leading up to Christmas can be one of the most telling times in a relationship, as the added pressures of christmas on an already stressed relationship can lead partners to lose the strong connection that binds them together. In focusing on creating the perfect Christmas, people often lose sight of the fact that they are compromising their relationships in the process.

Having an affair doesn't always have to be a conscious decision. We are never taught how to effectively deal with relationships, so when we drift apart slightly during the Christmas rush, we don't know what to do about it. Cheaters may miss the connection they have with their partner. They may believe they have fallen out of love. They may be tempted by the attention of a neighbor, friend, or coworker. They may even feel it is not technically cheating if it only happens once. Suddenly the possibility of a kiss with someone they are attracted to suddenly becomes something more. Mistletoe suddenly has a new meaning.

If your partner is having an affair, what should you be watching out for over this Christmas season?

If your partner does have a lover, it is quite likely that they will need to purchase them a gift. It may be something personal. It may be something sexy. It may be something expensive. A good way to monitor Christmas spending is to watch your credit card statements. Read your bank statements. Keep an eye out for receipts. Are there any sudden withdrawals or transactions that show up that you can't identify?

It takes money and time to maintain an affair, however it is easy to overlook brief snatches of time or money in the rush leading up to Christmas. The key to keeping on top of things is to notice the details. What time is your partner coming home at night? If they are late, what is their explanation? Have you checked to see if their explanation checks out?

Have you checked their cell phone to see who they have been sending Christmas wishes to?

If you are looking for further evidence, it may be useful to check the common hiding places for Christmas gifts and trinkets:

-backs of drawers
-inside old suitcases
-backs of unused cupboards or shelves
-in their car, including under seats, inside spare tire well, inside the glove compartment
-in their briefcase, purse, or work bag
-in the back of the closet
-in the garage
-in the attic or roof space

It may spoil the surprise of your Christmas present, but it might also avoid you receiving any other surprises!

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Merry Christmas,
Sarah Paul Catch Your Cheating Spouse!
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About the author:
Sarah Paul is a professional writer specializing in relationship and marriage issues. She has extensive experience in helping single people and couples with dating and relationship advice. She has been interviewed by Cosmopolitan magazine and is considered by many to be an expert in her field. She is best known for her work in the 2005 edition of How To Be Irresistible To Men, which is part of the 000 Relationships network.
Her How To Catch a Cheating Spouse product is a compilation of 3 quality ebooks covering tips and methods to uncover your cheating spouse to marital advice for couples in crisis. Also included is bonus tracking software Sherlock Pro, which tracks screencaps, websites visited, and keylogs. This ebook and software package is a comprehensive tool for partners that want proof of infidelity or peace of mind. You can learn more about how to catch your cheating spouse at: Catch Your Cheating Spouse!

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Merry Christmas,

Sarah Paul
Catch Your Cheating Spouse!